Wednesday, October 17, 2012

To expose One's emotions

I have feigned sleep,
preoccupation, or a hostile levity
when I realized by some
unmistakable sign that an intimate revelation
was quivering on the horizon
for the intimate revelations of young men,
or at least the terms in which they express them
are usually plagiaristic and marred by obvious suppressions
Reserving judgments is a matter of infinite hope
I am still a little afraid of missing something if I forget that
as my father snobbishly suggested
and I snobbishly repeat
a sense of the fundamental decencies
is parcelled out unequally at birth. (page 1)

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Does money talk?

I would not marry for money because there would not be an actual relationship involved. If a woman walked up to me and asked me to marry her and the very first thing she told me she was rich I would automatically just ignore her and walk away. The only reason i would marry someone for money is if I knew her for a long time and we started a relationship. Besides that I would not give in to the temptation of money.

Some people would marry for the money just because they are in dire need of money. But in the end it would not work out because they have never developed any sort of feelings for each other. They are only interested in the money. Money can corrupt ones mind and mess with your thoughts. It creates a gap in your mind and it posses you like a drug. So if money is all you really want in a relationship then what's the point of marriage? Marriage is supposed to be to the love of your life. Not to someone who can try and make you happy because they can spend all their money on you. Love and happiness is more important to me then any amount of money in the world and I will stand by that until I die.

Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Deceptive apperances

               Appearances are definitely deceptive in most people. They will try to dress up or act like a normal kind hearted person but underneath their "act" they have horrible personalities and are really mean to people. I've seen a couple people do that. For instance at school there are soooooooo many fake people its ridiculous. They try to get close to you and be your friend just so it will make them look better but in the end you can't trust them and they will stab you in the back. They want their appearance to look good so they will be someone everyone will like. We are concerned  about our appearances because we don't want to seem ugly to anyone else and we want to be loved by everybody. The girls and guys both care about their social status in high school and above. They don't want to be that one person that people always had something to say about or remembered just for their stupidity or snide remarks. My values are not empty. I value my friends and family more than anything else in the world. I would do anything for my family or my friends no matter what the cost would be. But people tend to take advantage of that trait in people. Some people get with their significant others just to have a lot of money or have a high social standing. They depend on them to buy what they want when they want it or they just like to boast about how awesome they are because their significant other made them that way. In my opinion money doesn't matter all that counts is the personality of the person. As long as they are not a mean person and know how to have fun I'm perfectly happy with that.